Images of Twin A Memoir of A Surviving Twin

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                            Twin Akilah

                 Twin Akilah and Cousin

Akilah is such a ball of energy. She is so articulate, smart, and such a diva. She is very emotional and sweet. She is bold and has a very good memory. I tell her all the time that she is a twin. She knows what twin means. For some reason twin books, shows,and presents all come in some type of twin form to her like a special gift from someone special.

I call Akilah "Ibeji" Which is African for twin representation. I also call her "Twin". I call her these names so she will always known she is special and was born special and survived under special circumstances.

When I upload these images I see her within Akilah my beautiful sweet Aminah.



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