June 17, 2013 I had to make the choice of letting my twin daughter Aminah pass. It was truly the hardest decision that my husband have ever had to make. Until that day, I never truly knew what real pain and disappointment felt like. As I write these words now tears drop on the top of my keypad of my laptop. What happened? Why me? These are the questions that I ask myself everyday since her death. If any woman chooses to have a home birth with a midwife please make sure that it is something that you really want to do and realize that indeed it is a major risk that you are taking. The pain of losing an infant is unbearable and I would like to prevent any other woman from going down the same path rather your having one baby or two. I found out I was pregnant with identical twins in November of 2012. We had already decided to have a home birth before the twin conformation. It was something we alwa...
This is the correspondence that I've been having back and forth with the MMA: -----Original Message----- From: andrea mcghee [mailto:andreamcgh@yahoo.com] Sent: Friday, November 1, 2013 12:34 AM To: Grievance@MissouriMidwivesAssociation.org My name is Andrea McGhee. I am following up with the review board. The midwife/s I am concerned about are: Joann Falcon Jennifer Konkol I am reporting a home birth death of a twin. I sent in my grievance form and release of records letters months ago. I have not heard anything in regarding my case. Has the death been reported by midwife/s? grievance@missourimidwivesassociation.org Nov 1 Hello, Andrea, I was surprised that I did not receive your return grievance complaint form in the mail. I thought you must have decided to pursue another route. I take this very seriously. I will check the mail again to see if your complaint has arrived. If it has n...
Today is the anniversary of Aminah's passing. This day 4 years ago I was overwhelmed with an undeniable feeling of regret. I felt alone and troubled. My soul just would not rest. In the picture above is Twin Akilah. I always upload pictures of her because this is what Aminah looks like.She was an identical twin. I feel that no matter what I can honestly say that I love Aminah and will continue to dedicate this blog to her in every way possible. Sometimes I look at Twin Akilah and just cry because she is so special and smart and she is missing her other part but everyday I show her pictures and remind her who Aminah is. I tell her what happened and I tell Akilah why she is special. I tell her your a twin!!!! I tell her she is so special that God had to make two. I have mourned for so long today is a Celebration. We will honor you our special Ibeji Holiday. We Love you Aminah.
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